Ah, once again Dr. Ichi will explain love to tou guys. Love... is very subjective. There is many definitions of love, be it in good or bad. But most of all, love is supposed to be a 'nice' and 'good feeling'. When you suffer, feel pain, need to compromise a lot or mentally/ physically cant take it anymore, true love will slowly fade away. What is left then is compassion, pity and responsibility to continue on with the relationship.
For example, if a couple were madly in love in the beginning, but then slowly feel 'pain' because he/ she need to compromise the other a lot until mentally, he/ she cant take it anymore... there's only 2 way out. One is to end it so no one will suffer any longer. The second option will be he/ she feel responsible for the relationship and think that ending it would be cruel. He/ she will try to mend it, patch it and heal it... but is it really worth doing? True love doesn't need these! This is called compassion or feeling sorry, not love anymore. So end it fast, or you will sure to suffer in the long run.....
I can see many people, especially teenagers (even kids) going into a relationship because they feel they 'need' to or as a 'special' show off to other people who is still single. Or they just cant wait because of curiosity. Sigh... I feel sad how the world has become now. Is love just a word to be used and play around? Love to me is as important as life and death, there should only be one, not two or three. When you found the true one, stick to it like it is your own very life. Let it go, and regret it for the rest of your life. Final words, be true to him/ her and be true to yourself..... Never take love for granted!
2 comments:
lolx.... Dr. Gatal.... lolx....
still missing YL too much....?
naa... who knows? maybe? dont think so... *whistling*
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