Thursday, October 11, 2018

First update of 2018

So long no touch my blogspot, now suddenly write back also because nothing to do in the office haha... Anyway just started my new job 2 weeks ago (the office is just next to my old old one) and it's still uncertain what my job position here will be. Currently only 6 (including me and my dad) people working here and all of us haven't even signed our employment papers, thus our salary is yet to be determined. This is what happens when you rushed to open a new company and start to do business before all necessity is handled first, sigh...

Aaaaaaanyway, a lot have happened since the last time I post (obviously). YL have 2 children now, 1 boy 1 girl, I think. She have completely shut herself from our group and become a full time mother, I suppose. The only time we chat (via WhatsApp) is when she wished me happy CNY, happy bday and when her 2nd child popped out (yes, we didn't even know she was pregnant). Heard that she always go to her MIL place during weekends, thus no free time at all for gatherings.

The new love of my life is a young girl by the name of Susan... ok not love level yet, just 'like'. She's the dream girl I have always wanted... kind, polite, cute, young (spirited), thin, average height, a little shy, humble... unfortunately too young for me and already have a BF (sure one la). Oh well, it doesn't hurt to dream a little, right? Haha... Meet her from the old working place, then after I quit, still able to see her again as she joined our badminton session (once a week). It was really motivational to sport AND see the girl you like at the same time, though I will still do it if she didn't (seriously). But alas good things always come to an end, and the badminton session ended 2 months ago as their company is organizing a free badminton session once each week too. Damn!

Still, as usual, making myself busy with games so that my mind and heart will not have anytime to drift apart, to the 'lonely zone'. Yeah, loneliness sometimes still hit me, like now. But if you drown yourself with something else, it doesn't hurt that much. Some people chooses alcohol, payed sex, gambling, drugs... while some better alternatives will be family, friends, hobby, entertainment, etc. It's hard not to think about love when love is nearly EVERYWHERE... in the TV, your parents, your crush, your married friends, couples on the streets, comics, animes, newspapers, etc. I still wish I can find one, but just went though my brother's wedding last week. The things he need to do, prepare, buy, sacrifice, waste, endure and finally get married was... not easy. If it was me, I would have chosen NOT to give peng kam (because why would I 'buy' your daughter when you don't do the same for my parents?), I wouldn't do chip sum leong (kena played like that, I would rather die) and not do a wedding dinner (need to buy/ invite/ prepare this and that, so mafan!). But of course this need approval from my..... nvm.

Up until now, the records for babies/ child are: Sum 1, Daniel 1, David 1. Heard from my bro he saw Sum's wife pregnant recently, so no.2 coming for him? YL 2, Jimmy/Wingc 1, YLin 2 (I think), the rest don't know. Sophia and Cyen also got already, don't know 1 or more. Babies... another thing to consider when getting married, lol...

I wonder if YL is fatter now that she gave birth to 2 children? Hmm..... Please don't.

What else is there to write? Oh, this year involved in a car accident where an idiot bang my Axia from behind and caused my car to ram the front car too. All fully paid by his insurance but the trouble and time he wasted us cannot be repaid, damn you! The accident was quite serious (RM10k+ for repairs) but luckily he swift left, not straight banging our behind or else it would have caused serious injuries to my mom who was sitting at the back.

Bought a new silver colored Almera due to my dad not having a company car anymore (bye Camry) and before the SST is implemented. GST was 0% too because the old government ruling party BN is finally toppled by PH. A great history in the making indeed. The ink on my finger took nearly 5 months to totally fade away, haha.

That's all I can think of for today, until next time, ciao!

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