Life is full of ups and downs, pain and laughter... Life is unpredictable yet realistic, cruel yet full of feelings... Life is made of bitter and sweet, sometimes taste like cili padi, sometimes like Milo Ais... In life you will cry and feel lonely, but then the sunshine will come and you will feel stronger and more motivated to try again....
So what can you do to live a better life? There's a lot of options. Some will work harder to find more money. With money comes power, status and security... Then there's the follow your dream path. Reaching that goal will ultimately make you feel better, happy and 'puas hati'.
But most people will choose the easier path. This path is the 'let it be' path. This path is easier than the 2 above. Of course, the money and happiness won't be that great too... So what's good about this option? Well... as most people who thinks alot, usually more problem arises after that. Then you feel even more down, and try even harder... and the loop continues.
But for 'let it be' people, they will take whatever that comes and solve it at the moment... and finish. They don't think so much as the more you try to plan (the plan then gets delayed or crumbled), the more you will feel the 'tension' and frustration. This comes with the saying 'The more you think about it, the more frustration arises'...
I'm not saying everyone should 'let it be'... But sometimes, we need to stop and rest. Doing too much of something will only make you fall deeper in the end. Calm down... do some yoga or taichi... then continue on with life. Man is not born with super powers... so don't think you can do it all by yourself. It's good to give your brain a rest once in a while, although you may think you don't need it.....
Thursday, February 21, 2008
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
Unpredictable life
Argh, lately life has been 'susah' for me. For so many days STILL no water, kns those ppl that don't pay and SYABAS for not trying to be reasonable. Quickly change our water meter into individual meter mai senang lor! Want us to gather up and pay the total of RM300++k only can, mimpilah! Now want to gather 8k per month also susah... really kns, sigh!
The 'battle' between me and Sum has subsided, but not yet ended. On one side I feel sad because years of friendship is torn just because of some meaningless fight. But on the other side I feel relieved as I don't need to see his 'fake' face anymore, won't be cheated (money involved) another time and most of all... no need to 'try' and sabar with his bad attitudes. Though he maybe richer than I am, but his attitude is also 'rich' (with bad sides). Until he change into a better man, I will still need to think MULTIPLE times before befrending him again. (I'm still terribly mad at him for cursing me with his lame excuses... sorry to say, I DO keep grudges, mwahaha...)
On the love side, nothing much happened... yeah, I still miss her (a little) but I am still sane enough to think straight. I know me and her will never be together... Friends are all we are meant to be. No matter how much I miss her, think about her, dream of her or wished to be with her, it will never be. I have accepted the war outcome, but still struggling to end the war. Yataa! (yup, just seen the episod one of season 2 Heroes today, lol)
I can see my friends are having a headache about their life too... mostly about their work life. It will come a time when I will join them, but I have things to handle before I can go that path. Until then, I hope all my friends will stay strong and don't overdo themselves. Life is about giving all we could give, nothing more, nothing less... Do not be tempted to jump ahead if you know you can't, or else you will fall into the darkness of the pit. ~Cya!~
The 'battle' between me and Sum has subsided, but not yet ended. On one side I feel sad because years of friendship is torn just because of some meaningless fight. But on the other side I feel relieved as I don't need to see his 'fake' face anymore, won't be cheated (money involved) another time and most of all... no need to 'try' and sabar with his bad attitudes. Though he maybe richer than I am, but his attitude is also 'rich' (with bad sides). Until he change into a better man, I will still need to think MULTIPLE times before befrending him again. (I'm still terribly mad at him for cursing me with his lame excuses... sorry to say, I DO keep grudges, mwahaha...)
On the love side, nothing much happened... yeah, I still miss her (a little) but I am still sane enough to think straight. I know me and her will never be together... Friends are all we are meant to be. No matter how much I miss her, think about her, dream of her or wished to be with her, it will never be. I have accepted the war outcome, but still struggling to end the war. Yataa! (yup, just seen the episod one of season 2 Heroes today, lol)
I can see my friends are having a headache about their life too... mostly about their work life. It will come a time when I will join them, but I have things to handle before I can go that path. Until then, I hope all my friends will stay strong and don't overdo themselves. Life is about giving all we could give, nothing more, nothing less... Do not be tempted to jump ahead if you know you can't, or else you will fall into the darkness of the pit. ~Cya!~
Sunday, February 17, 2008
Went to Ylin house for 'pai lin'
A taste of lamb from her is more delicious than the juiciest meat in the world... XD
Yesterday, after days of planning, went to Ylin house to visit her for CNY and see her new born baby. It should be done on Sunday but suddenly changed to Sat because she's busy that day. At first wanted to go Taman Bahagia for lunch (Jimmy wants to eat a very very delicious chicken rice) but Daniel says it's too far, and we would be going in a triangle (Tmn Melawati to Tmn Bahagia then back to Puchong), so we decided to eat at Wangsa Maju only.
After lunch, he took a haircut and then we're off to YLin's house. We were a bit late but finally found them. Already there was YLing, Sam, Jimmy, WingC, Oon and SGeng. We reached there around 2.45pm and hang out until 6pm++. Play mahjong that YLing brought, and poker cards. At first lost money on blackjacks, but then won back some on 'In between'. It was fun and adrenaline pumping when we play 'In between', haha. YLin's first son was also more 'smarter' now. Those few hours there was really full of laughter and memorable...
After that went to eat at a restaurant called 'The Waterlily Cafe' near IOI mall, but on the other side of the road. Most of the food there was grilled, but it was nice and delicious. A bit expensive but expected. Here are the food we ordered:
Me and Oon: Bali's Fish
Sam and WingC: Nasi Lemak BBQ Chicken
Daniel: Chicken + Beef combo
SGeng: Fish and Squid combo
Yling: Bali's Lamb
Jimmy: Bali's Beef
Overall I must say 'I should have sticked to the lamb in the first place!'. The fish was so small... lucky I was finally satisfied in the end. The lamb was nice and huge portion, why did I changed my mind!?
After that we went to 'Ngau Cheh Sui', I don't know what's it called in English. It's a nice open area in Damansara, but quite hidden that's why even Daniel don't know where it is. A nice place to take pictures, we had a blast there. (For more pics, head over to Daniel's blog!) There's a lot of restaurants, shops and stalls... definitely something for everyone. We didn't finished walking the whole place and left as it was getting late (near 12am liao!). The place closes at 12am.
We bid adieu and head home. I follow Daniel, SG follow Jimmy and WingC while Oon and Yling followed Sam. It was definitely a day to remember, how I wished we could do it more often!
Yesterday, after days of planning, went to Ylin house to visit her for CNY and see her new born baby. It should be done on Sunday but suddenly changed to Sat because she's busy that day. At first wanted to go Taman Bahagia for lunch (Jimmy wants to eat a very very delicious chicken rice) but Daniel says it's too far, and we would be going in a triangle (Tmn Melawati to Tmn Bahagia then back to Puchong), so we decided to eat at Wangsa Maju only.
After lunch, he took a haircut and then we're off to YLin's house. We were a bit late but finally found them. Already there was YLing, Sam, Jimmy, WingC, Oon and SGeng. We reached there around 2.45pm and hang out until 6pm++. Play mahjong that YLing brought, and poker cards. At first lost money on blackjacks, but then won back some on 'In between'. It was fun and adrenaline pumping when we play 'In between', haha. YLin's first son was also more 'smarter' now. Those few hours there was really full of laughter and memorable...
After that went to eat at a restaurant called 'The Waterlily Cafe' near IOI mall, but on the other side of the road. Most of the food there was grilled, but it was nice and delicious. A bit expensive but expected. Here are the food we ordered:
Me and Oon: Bali's Fish
Sam and WingC: Nasi Lemak BBQ Chicken
Daniel: Chicken + Beef combo
SGeng: Fish and Squid combo
Yling: Bali's Lamb
Jimmy: Bali's Beef
Overall I must say 'I should have sticked to the lamb in the first place!'. The fish was so small... lucky I was finally satisfied in the end. The lamb was nice and huge portion, why did I changed my mind!?
After that we went to 'Ngau Cheh Sui', I don't know what's it called in English. It's a nice open area in Damansara, but quite hidden that's why even Daniel don't know where it is. A nice place to take pictures, we had a blast there. (For more pics, head over to Daniel's blog!) There's a lot of restaurants, shops and stalls... definitely something for everyone. We didn't finished walking the whole place and left as it was getting late (near 12am liao!). The place closes at 12am.
We bid adieu and head home. I follow Daniel, SG follow Jimmy and WingC while Oon and Yling followed Sam. It was definitely a day to remember, how I wished we could do it more often!
Friday, February 15, 2008
No water again!
Argh... no water again! The stupid residents here don't want to pay for the water bill. So SYABAS came and cut the main pipe to stop water flowing even though some residents pay! Kns those idiotic and cheap-skake residents. Hope their toilet bowl melutup! >(
One fire belum padam, another fire came in... really suey. Have to resort to going out to eat so can save water from cuci pinggan mangkuk. No water susah, no electric lagi susah! I hope the individual meter will be implemented soon so those that don't pay their water bills only kena clamp, not ALL...
So the voting period is finally here... I have already registered, but don't know where to vote, haha. So I guess I won't be voting (lazy). But if I do vote, the only thing I know is I won't vote for PAS. Give me life, give me freedom!
The Edison news seem to be slowly fading away... maybe if Kira put more new pics, then only will it goes 'hot' again? Whatever the reason, this story tell us that nothing is 100% safe. So don't do it if you're afraid people will know! XD
One fire belum padam, another fire came in... really suey. Have to resort to going out to eat so can save water from cuci pinggan mangkuk. No water susah, no electric lagi susah! I hope the individual meter will be implemented soon so those that don't pay their water bills only kena clamp, not ALL...
So the voting period is finally here... I have already registered, but don't know where to vote, haha. So I guess I won't be voting (lazy). But if I do vote, the only thing I know is I won't vote for PAS. Give me life, give me freedom!
The Edison news seem to be slowly fading away... maybe if Kira put more new pics, then only will it goes 'hot' again? Whatever the reason, this story tell us that nothing is 100% safe. So don't do it if you're afraid people will know! XD
Thursday, February 14, 2008
Valentine Day
Yesterday Sum 'tuut' me on MSN, saying a whole lot of craps. It is even more clear evidence that he is reading my blog (I wanna trap him) but since he STILL doesn't admit it, then have fun being irritated while reading it, lol. I was amazed... actually I wasn't. He's famous for his hot temper, so it was expected for him to 'meletup' after reading what I have post about him. But to MSN me and even give me the middle finger, accusing me this and that... I wonder how many % of his brain did he used when he MSNed me. Cause obviously what he wrote to 'entertain' me was 50% bluff, 30% 'chok tai' and 20% 'fire in the hole' mocking messages...
I didn't reply him, cause in my life, he's the number ONE sweet talker and will 'lecture' you until you give up and admit he's the winner (in scolding, making up stories, proving facts, etc). And he even dares say my friends say I am worse than him. Financially, yes... attitude wise, you are FAR behind! I will not be cruel and let him has his own way, like it always been the past years of knowing him. I wonder when will he really change for the better? Hmmmm...... Hey wait, why should I care? On to the main story...! XD
So Valentine's Day is here... I still remember 2-3 years ago when a good friend of mine SMS me and teased me for not knowing when is Valentine's Day (yeah, she's a girl). To be honest, until now also I don't really remember...! But I don't need to, because I have been on the bachelor's path for years, so it's not time for me to put it as a 'special' date in my brain, yet.
Will I feel lonely today? Nah... Maybe I do, last year or the year before. But now, I'm 90% cured and there are always so many things to do, and loneliness isn't in the list. But if I saw a couple scrolling down the streets, hand to hand, I do feel happy for them. I wish the world will have less 'single' people like me, cause I know man is born to have a partner, not alone (although some can alter this fact, kudos to them).
Thought of joining SO for a non-valentine celebration dinner tonight. But then, it is TOO expensive (one of those classy restaurants, near Sri Hatamas I heard) and although I admire fascinating and classy places, I don't pay just to feel it... yet. Maybe when I'm richer, lol. Some more I heard they are serving Valentine menus only tonight. So doesn't it contradict with the first objective of going there in the first place? lol... whatever, as long as it's fun. Enjoy SOrians!
Happy Valentine's Day to all. May you be a loving couple forever (or be a couple soon). ~Ciao~
I didn't reply him, cause in my life, he's the number ONE sweet talker and will 'lecture' you until you give up and admit he's the winner (in scolding, making up stories, proving facts, etc). And he even dares say my friends say I am worse than him. Financially, yes... attitude wise, you are FAR behind! I will not be cruel and let him has his own way, like it always been the past years of knowing him. I wonder when will he really change for the better? Hmmmm...... Hey wait, why should I care? On to the main story...! XD
So Valentine's Day is here... I still remember 2-3 years ago when a good friend of mine SMS me and teased me for not knowing when is Valentine's Day (yeah, she's a girl). To be honest, until now also I don't really remember...! But I don't need to, because I have been on the bachelor's path for years, so it's not time for me to put it as a 'special' date in my brain, yet.
Will I feel lonely today? Nah... Maybe I do, last year or the year before. But now, I'm 90% cured and there are always so many things to do, and loneliness isn't in the list. But if I saw a couple scrolling down the streets, hand to hand, I do feel happy for them. I wish the world will have less 'single' people like me, cause I know man is born to have a partner, not alone (although some can alter this fact, kudos to them).
Thought of joining SO for a non-valentine celebration dinner tonight. But then, it is TOO expensive (one of those classy restaurants, near Sri Hatamas I heard) and although I admire fascinating and classy places, I don't pay just to feel it... yet. Maybe when I'm richer, lol. Some more I heard they are serving Valentine menus only tonight. So doesn't it contradict with the first objective of going there in the first place? lol... whatever, as long as it's fun. Enjoy SOrians!
Happy Valentine's Day to all. May you be a loving couple forever (or be a couple soon). ~Ciao~
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
Then a bad news came...
After sending dad to the airport, I drive back home. As soon as I opened the computer when I reached home, I saw Sum MSN me. To my horror, he decided to dismiss the guild! Here's a summary of what is in the MSN:
Me: Why disband suddenly!?
Sum: I have no time to manage. If want continue then you and your bro find more members...
Me: (YOUR guild and you want ME to do!?) I have no time... then why don't you just leave it there? Why must disband?
Sum: I want to join WOE... so I will join other ppl's guild.
Me: Why don't join WOE with our guild?
Sum: No time... I want to 'suka suka' online and join WOE. I'm busy with work, gf, life... so no time.
Me: No time then don't join WOE and just leave the guild as it is la!
Sum: No... I want to disband and join WOE.
ME: ................................................
No need to say, I was damn tulan and pissed by how he replied my answers. No time, still got time, but then NO TIME...!?! He is either damn messed up or plain self-centered (which I think is BOTH). I'm pissed because as I;m one of the guild members, I have been contributing 'taxes' which is experience points. After contributing more than 20 million of exp (those are a LOT of exp), he told me he's gonna disband the bloody guild! I feel like choking him then giving him a choke slam right at that moment! But I took it all in without even one word of f**king him...
I then made my own guild (which I should have done years ago) and invited 4 of his bots to tax him back, to 'repay' what I have lost. But he say only until guild lvl 3, which is around 7 million of exp, then he will leave the guild to do his own 'things'. 20 minus 7, he still owes me 13 mil of exp. How will he repay it? Just a single 'sorry' lor! >(
How I am able to stand up with his kind of attitude until now I'm also amazed. Although I may not accomplish anything until now, at least I'm FAR a better man than he is. Working at his dad's office, does that consider an accomplishment? I DON'T THINK SO...!!! It's not just me who can't stand his attitude, even his gf is fed-up with it. Good luck with your so-called 'accomplishment'!
P/S: Sorry if this post is not 'nice' or 'emo-ish'... It's just one of those days when I can't stand it anymore and need to express it out, loud. After a few days of not interacting with him, I will cool down... most likely.
Me: Why disband suddenly!?
Sum: I have no time to manage. If want continue then you and your bro find more members...
Me: (YOUR guild and you want ME to do!?) I have no time... then why don't you just leave it there? Why must disband?
Sum: I want to join WOE... so I will join other ppl's guild.
Me: Why don't join WOE with our guild?
Sum: No time... I want to 'suka suka' online and join WOE. I'm busy with work, gf, life... so no time.
Me: No time then don't join WOE and just leave the guild as it is la!
Sum: No... I want to disband and join WOE.
ME: ................................................
No need to say, I was damn tulan and pissed by how he replied my answers. No time, still got time, but then NO TIME...!?! He is either damn messed up or plain self-centered (which I think is BOTH). I'm pissed because as I;m one of the guild members, I have been contributing 'taxes' which is experience points. After contributing more than 20 million of exp (those are a LOT of exp), he told me he's gonna disband the bloody guild! I feel like choking him then giving him a choke slam right at that moment! But I took it all in without even one word of f**king him...
I then made my own guild (which I should have done years ago) and invited 4 of his bots to tax him back, to 'repay' what I have lost. But he say only until guild lvl 3, which is around 7 million of exp, then he will leave the guild to do his own 'things'. 20 minus 7, he still owes me 13 mil of exp. How will he repay it? Just a single 'sorry' lor! >(
How I am able to stand up with his kind of attitude until now I'm also amazed. Although I may not accomplish anything until now, at least I'm FAR a better man than he is. Working at his dad's office, does that consider an accomplishment? I DON'T THINK SO...!!! It's not just me who can't stand his attitude, even his gf is fed-up with it. Good luck with your so-called 'accomplishment'!
P/S: Sorry if this post is not 'nice' or 'emo-ish'... It's just one of those days when I can't stand it anymore and need to express it out, loud. After a few days of not interacting with him, I will cool down... most likely.
1 week no update...
Wah, it's been a long long time since I didn't update. Ok, maybe 1 week is not so long, but it's been long since I didn't update that long... Last week balik kampung because CNY, but because we were late and traffic jam on the way, we missed the reunion dinner. So we randomly pick and ate in a restaurant in Lawan Kuda. I was suprised to see a new dish there that I have never eaten before... It's pork, but the strange part is that it taste soft yet crunchy at the same time. A real fattening delicacy, but once in a long time, worth it!
Thursday more relatives came and we play mahjong, poker cards and etc like what a CNY 'mood' should do. Lost a bit money, but I was still happy as I was able to enjoy and see my relatives that I hardly see. Got some angpows, but way less than last year. But who's counting? XD
Friday went to Ipoh. Went with my favourite niece too. So many people (and leng luis), the moment I step into Jaya Jusco, I already feel like I'm back in KL. The lack in parking space was the same too... -_-; A funny thing happened when a fat lady pinched my niece on the butt... was he lucky? LOL.
Sat went back around 11pm++ to avoid the massive traffic. The ride was quite smooth, but my poor dad have to suffer while driving in the night (tired). Ah, the feeling of back at home is so sweet...! Sunday and Monday stay at home while my parents went out to do their stuffs (shopping, paper works, casino, etc.) This year was also quite lucky as my dad won around RM5k. So Monday night we went to eat an RM188 meal... it was meant for maybe 10 people, but we 6 nearly finished it all... left the taufu to tapau only, lol.
So yesterday, Tuesday, is the day dad will be going back to China. All of us (except our aunt) sent dad to the LCCT, spend some time together at McD and finally see dad leave into the check-in area. Lucky in the last minute I asked dad for the car keys, or else we will walk back home! The few days dad were here was nice... We learned a lot from him, and I'm happy when both my parents are together as I can see my mom miss my dad a lot. Take care over there dad!
Thursday more relatives came and we play mahjong, poker cards and etc like what a CNY 'mood' should do. Lost a bit money, but I was still happy as I was able to enjoy and see my relatives that I hardly see. Got some angpows, but way less than last year. But who's counting? XD
Friday went to Ipoh. Went with my favourite niece too. So many people (and leng luis), the moment I step into Jaya Jusco, I already feel like I'm back in KL. The lack in parking space was the same too... -_-; A funny thing happened when a fat lady pinched my niece on the butt... was he lucky? LOL.
Sat went back around 11pm++ to avoid the massive traffic. The ride was quite smooth, but my poor dad have to suffer while driving in the night (tired). Ah, the feeling of back at home is so sweet...! Sunday and Monday stay at home while my parents went out to do their stuffs (shopping, paper works, casino, etc.) This year was also quite lucky as my dad won around RM5k. So Monday night we went to eat an RM188 meal... it was meant for maybe 10 people, but we 6 nearly finished it all... left the taufu to tapau only, lol.
So yesterday, Tuesday, is the day dad will be going back to China. All of us (except our aunt) sent dad to the LCCT, spend some time together at McD and finally see dad leave into the check-in area. Lucky in the last minute I asked dad for the car keys, or else we will walk back home! The few days dad were here was nice... We learned a lot from him, and I'm happy when both my parents are together as I can see my mom miss my dad a lot. Take care over there dad!
Wednesday, February 06, 2008
Busy CNY
Sry for the lack in updates... last week busy kemas rumah. Then on Sat, me, Oon, WingC, Jimmy, SG, Cming and Yling went to Sunway Pyramid to celebrate SG's bday. Went for a 3 hour karaoke, followed by window shopping. Most of the clothes are bought by SG... I didn't notice but among all my TARC friends, only SG (and SP) wore dresses. All others are either too shy or not suitable to wear dresses. Why do I suddenly mention this? Because I think that girls (or woman) that wears dresses are more feminine, beautiful and... better looking! XD
On Sunday went to fetch dad from Air-Asia airport. He bought back a bunch of stuffs, and my fav is my ORI MAN U football cap (from Air-Asia) and an expensive brown leather turn-watch or whatever it is called. The watch need to be 'wind' every 1 or 2 days to be operational, which means it doesn’t need battery. It looks nice too as the back of it is semi-transparent, allowing you to see it's inside (ticking and moving parts). Cool! ^^
Then Monday started the 'itchy hand' fever... We fixed the Mahjong table that we bought 1 week ago, then 'hoi toi'! Ahh... so long no play mahjong liao, really nice, kekeke...! Also play poker cards and any games which is related to the word 'fun' and 'gamble', hahaha... Only once season a year, nvmla! :P
Today or tomorrow will be leaving for kampung in Gopeng, Perak. The 'fun' will continue there, with more people and more laughter around. The only thing I hate is when the grown-ups quarrel among each other about stuffs like 'Why you don't balik, need me balik!?', 'Why you cook so much?’,’ Why always me, not you...!?' etc. Sighhh........ -_-; And they say we are childish, cis!
So won't be updating much until after balik kampung or after CNY. Hope you all will have a Happy Holiday! Gong Hei Fatt Choy to all!! ^^
On Sunday went to fetch dad from Air-Asia airport. He bought back a bunch of stuffs, and my fav is my ORI MAN U football cap (from Air-Asia) and an expensive brown leather turn-watch or whatever it is called. The watch need to be 'wind' every 1 or 2 days to be operational, which means it doesn’t need battery. It looks nice too as the back of it is semi-transparent, allowing you to see it's inside (ticking and moving parts). Cool! ^^
Then Monday started the 'itchy hand' fever... We fixed the Mahjong table that we bought 1 week ago, then 'hoi toi'! Ahh... so long no play mahjong liao, really nice, kekeke...! Also play poker cards and any games which is related to the word 'fun' and 'gamble', hahaha... Only once season a year, nvmla! :P
Today or tomorrow will be leaving for kampung in Gopeng, Perak. The 'fun' will continue there, with more people and more laughter around. The only thing I hate is when the grown-ups quarrel among each other about stuffs like 'Why you don't balik, need me balik!?', 'Why you cook so much?’,’ Why always me, not you...!?' etc. Sighhh........ -_-; And they say we are childish, cis!
So won't be updating much until after balik kampung or after CNY. Hope you all will have a Happy Holiday! Gong Hei Fatt Choy to all!! ^^
Thursday, January 31, 2008
The season is coming...
Ahh... finally the season has come. Whenever CNY comes, I feel so happy and high-spirited. It's because CNY is the season to balik kampung and see all my relatives (which maybe can see 1-2 times a year, including CNY!). Also it is the time to get angpows... although not much, but the 'feeling' of opening an angpow to see how much you get is just... fun, lol.
Then it's also the time they play those happy CNY songs (I like listening to those songs). Not to mention it's the time to throw away your guild and eat like a pig! So soo soooooo many nice foods, I can't wait to eat them all! Also the only time in the year where I buy new clothes (I'm very jimat-sermat type, lol) and get to show it off to relatives and friends, hehe...
Plus, it's the only time in the year where we are allowed to gamble! Okok, dowan call gamble... call play 'money related' games, haha. Poker, mahjong, cho dee... those are the favourites. When you play it in a happy season like CNY, lose money also nvm! (but I dowan lose la, touchwood...)
Need I explain more why I love CNY so much? As the season is coming, nowadays busy busy cleaning up the house, kemas this and that, etc. Some more dad's coming back this Sunday, and going to celebrate SG's birthday on Sat... so busy, sorry if I don't update often!
Wishing all my readers a very merry GONG XI FA CHAI!!!
Then it's also the time they play those happy CNY songs (I like listening to those songs). Not to mention it's the time to throw away your guild and eat like a pig! So soo soooooo many nice foods, I can't wait to eat them all! Also the only time in the year where I buy new clothes (I'm very jimat-sermat type, lol) and get to show it off to relatives and friends, hehe...
Plus, it's the only time in the year where we are allowed to gamble! Okok, dowan call gamble... call play 'money related' games, haha. Poker, mahjong, cho dee... those are the favourites. When you play it in a happy season like CNY, lose money also nvm! (but I dowan lose la, touchwood...)
Need I explain more why I love CNY so much? As the season is coming, nowadays busy busy cleaning up the house, kemas this and that, etc. Some more dad's coming back this Sunday, and going to celebrate SG's birthday on Sat... so busy, sorry if I don't update often!
Wishing all my readers a very merry GONG XI FA CHAI!!!
Monday, January 28, 2008
What type of chocolate are you?
| You are White Chocolate |
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What Kind of Chocolate Are You?
Sounds like me... does it?
The feeling of being wanted
How many times have you seen a nice couple which has been together for years, suddenly break up and one of them is being 'taken' by another person which the individual has only know for weeks, maybe months?
These people who easily give up years of relationship for another 'new' person are what I hate most in a person. They have no 'faithfulness' or 'true love' that they can easily fall for another, when the time has come. Sure, maybe it's because the old (or long) couple feels that they are not compatible with each other anymore, after years together... but only after years together, did he/she only realised? Especially only when a 'new' player jumps in, only then did they found out? I call that all 'bull-taik'... lol
It's obvious that the 'spark' is not there anymore. He/ she feels the other doesn't love him/ her that 'much' anymore... or maybe he/she feels that for the other side him/herself. Human is greedy... when there is something better, they will choose it no matter how long the old one has serve it's purpose. It usually only works on things, now even human emotion can be 'played' around. Sad, truly sad...
The feeling of being wanted... the feeling of being needed, appreciated and respected... is something so powerful, that we may fall victim to it without really realising it. Power and money is what drives a man crazy, but those without it will play with feelings instead. They will find somebody beautiful, then the 'adrenaline' of chasing that person will start. The more he/she is rejected, the more he/she wants that person. When the 'adrenaline' is no longer there, he/she will soon feel boring and dump it's victim, and finds a new prey. These acts are more likely of an animal than a civilised person called 'man'...
I hope that you are not one of them... one of these 'animals'. You wouldn't want yourself being 'played' right? So why do you play with others? Always be kind and faithful to your loved ones, and your goodness will be rewarded (eventually). Be smart and happy, but be considerate too. Ciao~!
These people who easily give up years of relationship for another 'new' person are what I hate most in a person. They have no 'faithfulness' or 'true love' that they can easily fall for another, when the time has come. Sure, maybe it's because the old (or long) couple feels that they are not compatible with each other anymore, after years together... but only after years together, did he/she only realised? Especially only when a 'new' player jumps in, only then did they found out? I call that all 'bull-taik'... lol
It's obvious that the 'spark' is not there anymore. He/ she feels the other doesn't love him/ her that 'much' anymore... or maybe he/she feels that for the other side him/herself. Human is greedy... when there is something better, they will choose it no matter how long the old one has serve it's purpose. It usually only works on things, now even human emotion can be 'played' around. Sad, truly sad...
The feeling of being wanted... the feeling of being needed, appreciated and respected... is something so powerful, that we may fall victim to it without really realising it. Power and money is what drives a man crazy, but those without it will play with feelings instead. They will find somebody beautiful, then the 'adrenaline' of chasing that person will start. The more he/she is rejected, the more he/she wants that person. When the 'adrenaline' is no longer there, he/she will soon feel boring and dump it's victim, and finds a new prey. These acts are more likely of an animal than a civilised person called 'man'...
I hope that you are not one of them... one of these 'animals'. You wouldn't want yourself being 'played' right? So why do you play with others? Always be kind and faithful to your loved ones, and your goodness will be rewarded (eventually). Be smart and happy, but be considerate too. Ciao~!
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