Love is blind... or opposite attracts?

Everyone knows that love is a strange and funny thing. We cannot explain how love works or scientifically acknowledge how to control love. Love comes from the heart, mind and soul. But because of that, we sometimes choose the wrong partner based on the word 'love' alone...


So the question in my mind is, which is the cause of these random love? Do a girl love another guy who she never seen before in her life, because love is blind... or because the guy is totally the opposite of her? Why I ask this is because I have seen many couples which are totally the opposite of each other (example stingy/ kind, hard-headed/ understanding, short/ tall, fat/ thin, beautiful/ not beautiful), yet they stayed together and may even get married one day.


So, do these couples like each other because he/she can fill up the weakness of each another? Maybe, since bad and old habits are hard to change. Some doesn't even want to change as it build their characters. So finding a person who can love you for you are (even with your bad traits) will somehow develop the 'love' and 'like' feeling in the heart and mind, and eventually you will think he/she is the one for life!


But some 'ambitious' ones will think 'I will change his bad attitudes when we are married'. Come on... how many do you think can REALLY do that?!? For example, in the first place he like you because he thought you like him for who he is. But after married, the wife tries to change the husband, and eventually he will think 'I have fell in love with the wrong woman!'... so finally divorce will come soon after. Why don't she think of changing him BEFORE marriage? The reason maybe because she is confident he will change slowly but surely in the future OR she's scared she will lose him if she tries to change him now (but will get worse AFTER, lol). These thinking are sooooo wrong!


I really pity those that is trying hard to maintain their relationship but deep inside, the love is really slowly dying, without realising it. Love should not be so painful or suffering... love should be enjoyed by both and the feeling must be mutual and true. Trying to be one you are not or keeping everything inside will not make you happy, and after marriage it will get worse, believe me. So if you realised he/she is not the one you want for life, wake up NOW. There is still a lot of fishes in the sea, so why gamble and take a step that you will regret for the rest of your life?


If you are the one who thinks that love is blind, then sorry, I can't help you. Why? Because most of the people who thinks like that eventually will succumb into the love pit, and feel happy for the rest of their lives (or opposite)! XD



IQ Question: which part of the human body is the sweat-tiest of all? (means paling byk berpeluh loh) Answers in the comment box, and I will reveal later!